My covid-19 lock-down days

Don’t be confused from the subject .By god grace me, my family and all my friends are safe during the covid-19 pandemic. I want to give condolence those who lost their life’s and still fighting with this pandemic. No buddy predict this disaster is coming to our door steps. I would say this is worst then any cyclone and tsunami  because cyclone come on sea sore and hit badly and passed away but this virus stay with you and you have fight with your immunity power.

But this blog not about what worst all we have experienced and experiencing right now. It’s all about what good things we learned. This gave us some very nice life lessons. Humans most of the time learn from their mistakes. Its human tendency. These lessons our parents\ grandparents tried to teach us many time in our life but we always ignored them saying this. Time has changes mom and dad so don’t give us lecture but truth is time never change. During Covid-19 many of us realized. We are in the race of survival in this competitive world. Which never going to end and we forget happy living basic fundamentals.Some points here i would like to discuss which i feel i should share.

1. Spending time and playing with my 18 month kid still world most beautiful experienced which my grandparents and parents felt with me\us. Thanks to Covid-19 lock-down otherwise I would have really missed these movement and never get second chance to think of it. Value of spending time with your family is most amazing thing in the world.
2. Joint family importance: You should always need to stay with your brothers\sister\ parents\old friends otherwise this kind of disaster may not give you second chance to meet with them. Its bitter and harsh reality.
3. Technology vs Nature: You spend your most of the time with high end technology gadget rather then human and nature but this covid-19 everyone must realize these are just a way of communication or entertainment tool. This will not give you the satisfactory pleasure and peace of mind. Multinational companies playing with us and making money. You will get bore with whatsup chatting ,youtube channel ,facebook ,Insta like .Suddenly you feel Amazon\ Netflix has really limited content because you finished everything within one month lockdown time and now remote search button is irritating you but a short walk of terrace or your balcony garden give you so much relief and immense pleasure from the tension and anxiety
4. Evening or Night social distancing walk with your neighbor or society friends give you a refreshing byte and you can feel you have someone with whom you can expresses your thought and feeling instead of spending time on mobile\TV gadget. watching morning and evening sun rise and sun set become you fav time pass.
5. Suddenly you realize my genuine monthly expenditure is  just 15k to 20k per month if  we are stick to our tradition food diet and suddenly you are feeling healthy because of home and hygiene food.
6. You have plenty amount of time to talking with your old school\college friends ,cousins and you are playing Ludo, cards, carrom and other games. You are spending beautiful every morning\evening with your  son or daughter and you have good time for work out and meditation to even finishing your daily office work.
7. You again become mechanical ,electric engineer, plumber  and started repairing your home appliance RO ,Cooler ,AC, Fan, Tub-light and suddenly you are enjoying  these work basically its self-dependency. Which our parents use to do there self.
8. Nature automatically become CCC (calm,cool,clear ) because you are not contributing  into pollution for unnecessary car\bike rides.
9. Suddenly you may be thinking about to moving near your home town and find job there so you can stay closet to your love once. This covid-19 realized us we are very far from our home town. Its true once upon on a time money does not matter because its not solving our actual purpose. Artificial happiness is not an happiness once famous shayari I am remembering now .

                 

                                                         “Gaaon mai chhod aaye jo, hajaar gaj ki bujurgon ki haweli.
                                                         Wo sahar mai sau gaj mai rahne ko khud ki tarakki kahte hain."

10. Your home maker queen try to survive without cook and maid after some time and may be they are feeling you can manage things with-out external helping hand .Covid-19 gave back them that confidence 😊 and you also enjoying helping them in to the kitchen and showing them hidden cooking talent.
11. Some of us ofcourse understand the value of our home workers. How much work they were doing and very less we were paying to them.
12. Some managers\bosses understood employee can deliver there delivery  from home also and they can trust there skills.
13. your mom and wife become restaurant for you and serving your favorite food  with price less smile.
14. When we compare our childhood and our children childhood so I must say we dint have these stupid mobile and time consuming games and we were lucky. We spend our child hood in real nature and playing real games like(kho kho,luka chupi, chain pulling, Cricket in 36 degree temperature in big play ground, football ) and now what our children doing but yes we can give that childhood to them.its up to us.
15. Some of us may be getting irritation because of lockdown and may be they have completely lock there self from past two months. Yes you will defiantly get irritation if you are not balance your life and you will not plan your day. Don’t became workaholic. Work for just fulfill your daily requirement because no one see future .You can plan for some extend and life is beyond your expectations.

So point is here our parents and grant parents spend a healthy life because they have created the opportunity where they were. They never leave there birth place for the opportunity and new jobs .They spend their career in one government office happily because end of the day they get above satisfactory life and maintaining thei relation. Even they have spent good time to maintain their relation. For every success full life you need your family support, your friends support and this all you can get it from your native birth place easily where you have spent your 25 years of life. New places you will again spend another 25 year to find those relations and build life from beginning. Now time has changed you will get everything in small town places what you were getting in metro city including good tradition culture.

One night one of my friend said today I really enjoyed Mango. I bought 700 rupees mango and eat with my family. He said after so many years I really enjoy the mango taste. I personally felt why we are missing these small moment .Every year mango come in the market but why we are enjoying this flavor in this disaster. May be we all living for future not for present.I felt after covid-19 also we should live our life same way and enjoy every moment of life. Many thing going to change after the Covid-19.Covid-19 gave us good lesson in life .Please value for your relation, value for the nature ,value personal time and personal life ..

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