Life in control and control
on a life both are not good for good life. Life in control means you are
planning each and every steps very well . Weather you talk about your
education or your career or your own marriage or your children education and
last your retirement. Everything is planned very well and finally you will say I
planned my life well and life in a control and I lived a success full life .Yes
you did it . Same instruction you will give to your follower and your next
generation. You always tell to your follower after making such discipline, in
my life since last 20 years.I have achieved so much fame and good amount of money and now I can afford a
luxury lifestyle but no one share the reality of sacrifices, you have done in the
past. Sacrifice in terms of you might have missed many friends relation because
of less time in your discipline life, many important marriages, many childhood friends,
your own children childhood precious moment and there precious time ,did not
spend time with your old parents, quality time with your own wife, you are touch
with your own brother and sisters on whatsup and Facebook. What is the real
price of these moments. Can anyone tell ? You cannot buy it once you lost it
.This is the fact and real experience you have to share with you follower and
let them choose and decide .What they want to achieve. Luxury life style always looks good
on Facebook, twitter and Instagram but behind the social media and fake fame
its very lonely. Yes some people are exceptions those make balance between personal and
professional life because there family support structure are good. I will say they
are lucky.
But nobody share this bitter reality of truth to their follower, what they have lost during the rabbit race and they teach same philosophy to their
children because of maintaining the fake
status in society .May be they don’t want to accept it in-front of everybody and
may be in there life success means only luxury. Very few people will tell you
the truth behind the story.
It’s very impotent to understand the truth and its everybody
responsibility to bring this truth in front of newcomer so they can take right
path for good healthy and satisfying life not success full life.
My inspiration (Mr. Standard) always used to tell me . “You will
get everything whatever you want in your life but you have to pay for it. What
you are paying that is worth or not what you are achieving and are you ready for paying
it .it’s only your decision. No one else can take it”. These are the golden words
for me. These sentence make my life easy to take hard decision.
Because today’s success means your Facebook status,How many follower you have in twitter, Your Instagram
status, branded cloths and you are traveling in business class or economy
class.You have flat in luxury apartment in very high society and for that you have taken loan from bank and 30 year non stop EMI you are paying for bank.if you want to finish it early then you are working 14,15 hour daily and race will not finish because one flat never enough.You will take second home on EMI .
In reality is every success full person always has dark site
also that everyone need to understand. What time you paid and sacrifices you have done. This
thing you have to tell to your children and follower before you push them in
control and disciplined life.One flat is
One thing we all have to understand here .Success means is not
always win and stay on top with your competitor. As per my understating, My
math’s, computer teacher also successful who is giving life complex calculation
in easy ways.They have many follower without social media. My postman uncle also successful who is posting each and every
letter without delay and mistake last 20 years and every member know him by
cycle break sound he came. He spend quality time with while he is posting
letter. Our colony panipuri uncle also success full those are giving same tasty
panipuri in reasonable price last 20 year. Our kirana shop shopkeeper also successful
who always smile and keep smiling once we visit his shop.For some people want money
and fame for any cost it’s their decision .Don’t follow them may be you want some
peace full life with your love once and want to stay in small town with grace
full life.Both life has different meaning and there is no comparison and Choice
should always yours !
Some time life is more beautiful in two bedroom apartment comparing to acer
bungalow because in flat you cannot hide your issue with your dear ones and they always stay with you what ever condition is there.Be like strong family.
One of the business tycoon expressed himself the reality of success
during one of the interview. His website revenue comes in trillion and his website
alone equals to amazon,flipkar,paytm,snapdeal.yes I am talking about ALIBAB.com founder Jack Ma. Everyone must watch his words in below video.
Don’t run behind the fame of others, make your own way in your
town may be others will start following
you and join you.
Jack Ma interview for young generation.
