You will get everything in your life but you have to pay for it.

Life in control and control on a life both are not good for good life. Life in control means you are planning each and every steps very well . Weather you talk about your education or your career or your own marriage or your children education and last your retirement. Everything is planned very well and finally you will say I planned my life well and life in a control and I lived a success full life .Yes you did it . Same instruction you will give to your follower and your next generation. You always tell to your follower after making such discipline, in my life since last 20 years.I have achieved so much fame and  good amount of money and now I can afford a luxury lifestyle but no one share the reality of sacrifices, you have done in the past. Sacrifice in terms of you might have missed many friends relation because of less time in your discipline life, many important marriages, many childhood friends, your own children childhood precious moment and there precious time ,did not spend time with your old parents, quality time with your own wife, you are touch with your own brother and sisters on whatsup and Facebook. What is the real price of these moments. Can anyone tell ? You cannot buy it once you lost it .This is the fact and real experience you have to share with you follower and let them choose and decide .What they want to achieve. Luxury life style always looks good on Facebook, twitter and Instagram but behind the social media and fake fame its very lonely. Yes some people are exceptions those make balance between personal and professional life because there family support structure are good. I will say they are lucky.

But nobody share this bitter reality of truth to their follower, what they have lost during the rabbit race and they teach same philosophy to their children because of maintaining  the fake status in society .May be they don’t want to accept it in-front of everybody and may be in there life success means only luxury. Very few people will tell you the truth behind the story.

It’s very impotent to understand the truth and its everybody responsibility to bring this truth in front of newcomer so they can take right path for good healthy and satisfying life not success full life.

My inspiration (Mr. Standard) always used to tell me . “You will get everything whatever you want in your life but you have to pay for it. What you are paying that is worth or not what you are achieving and are you ready for paying it .it’s only your decision. No one else can take it”. These are the golden words for me. These sentence make my life easy to take hard decision.

Because today’s success means your Facebook status,How many follower you have in twitter, Your Instagram status, branded cloths and you are traveling in business class or economy class.You have flat in luxury apartment in very high society and for that  you have taken loan from bank and 30 year non stop EMI you are paying for bank.if you want to finish it early then you are working 14,15 hour daily and race will not finish because one flat never enough.You will take second home on EMI .

In reality is every success full person always has dark site also that everyone need to understand. What time you paid and sacrifices you have done. This thing you have to tell to your children and follower before you push them in control and disciplined life.One flat is  enough for living and maintaining good life.

One thing we all have to understand here .Success means is not always win and stay on top with your competitor. As per my understating, My math’s, computer teacher also successful who is giving life complex calculation in easy ways.They have many follower without social media. My postman uncle also successful who is posting each and every letter without delay and mistake last 20 years and every member know him by cycle break sound he came. He spend quality time with while he is posting letter. Our colony panipuri uncle also success full those are giving same tasty panipuri in reasonable price last 20 year. Our kirana shop shopkeeper also successful who always smile and keep smiling once we visit his shop.For some people want money and fame for any cost it’s their decision .Don’t follow them may be you want some peace full life with your love once and want to stay in small town with grace full life.Both life has different meaning and there is no comparison and Choice should always yours !

Some time life is more beautiful  in two bedroom apartment comparing to acer bungalow because in flat you cannot hide your issue with your dear ones and they always stay with you what ever condition is there.Be like strong family.

One of the business tycoon expressed himself the reality of success during one of the interview. His website revenue comes in trillion and his website alone equals to amazon,flipkar,paytm,snapdeal.yes I am talking about ALIBAB.com founder Jack Ma. Everyone must watch his words in below video.

Don’t run behind the fame of others, make your own way in your town may be others will start following you and join you.

Jack Ma interview  for young generation.